The adventures that come with raising three boys and the honost feelings that come from missing our precious girl.

Thursday, September 3, 2009

Evan

Evan is 6 1/2 years old. He has seen pediatricians, developmental pediatrician, opthamologist, dermatologist, neurologist, neurosurgeon, urologist, geneticist, and endocrinologist. He has had too many viles of blood drawn to count, had 4 MRI's, 1 CAT scan, 2 EEG's, 2 eye muscle surgery's, 1 skin biopsy, been hospitalized 3 times, been taken to the hospital 3 times by ambulance, had numerous x-rays, been in physical therapy, occupational therapy, developmental therapy and speech therapy in different combinations since he was 8 months old, and been poked, proded, and checked over more times than anyone would want. He has been diagnosed with Syringomyelia (fluid in the center of his spinal cord), asthma, and Chromosome 17q21.31 micro deletion syndrome (a small portion of his 17th chromosome is missing).

Evan had some appointments this week down at Riley's Children Hospital. Our first was a 23 hour EEG. Evan is always so tolerant of doctors and does very well but having leads glued all over your head would get to anyone!




He was less than thrilled with the new "hat" he had to wear but decided that it might be ok, after a few books. He is easily distracted:)





The nurse told me that I was lucky that our room had the "deluxe" bed. Yes, that is it folded up behind Evan. FYI...it didn't feel very deluxe to me! He was very ready to have all of this removed but I think that part was worse for him than getting them put on! He was a trooper though and was very happy to see that his hair was still under there:)



After our neurology appointment we decided to have a fun day! We ate at our favorite Indy restaurant, Buca Di Beppo! It was so yummy!



Then we headed to the zoo. I forgot how cool that zoo is and we had so much fun forgetting about doctors for a while. He thought about reaching in and touching the sharks but decided against it.




He did touch the elephant and said that it felt like a porcupine. I'm not sure how he came up with that.

We even got to watch a dolphin show. It was so nice to spend some fun time with Evan in the midst of so much not so fun stuff.
The next morning brought more lab work, an x-ray and an appointment with the Endocrinologist. It was a long 3 days but I came home to two other happy boys, cared for by my parents and sisters and a sparkling clean house (thanks to my awesome mom)! In most ways it was annoying that we had to spend 3 days going to doctor appointments but I spoke to one mom who said they had been there for 13 days! We really are blessed and it was obvious that Evan doesn't have it half as bad as some of the other children we saw at the hospital. We are so blessed with a 6 year old boy who despite all of these medical issues is learning and growing and even teaching us a thing or two. God gave us a special little boy and we are so very proud of him.

10 comments:

  1. Oh Evan, those first pictures of you made me cry! I'm so sorry you had to do all that stuff. I love you, Buddy, and I'm so proud of you!

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  2. Made me cry too, and I don't even really know Evan. Jaime, today you helped me change my perspective on a rough night and early morning. Thank you. You are a fantastic mom!

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  3. Ahh...I feel the same. We have a few appointments coming up that are horrible too.
    hugs to all...

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  4. Hi Jamie! Your sister in law Shannan referred me to your blog after I left a comment on hers. We also lost a baby and are trying to find our way in the world without him. I write about it on one of my blogs-
    www.wingslikeabutterfly.blogspot.com

    The struggles that Evan has to go through make me so sad for him, but so thankful that there are wonderful doctors, nurses, and hospitals that can care for our kids.

    I can relate a bit on what it is like to LIVE in a children's hospital because Samuel also had umpteen doctors, specialist, nurses, and so much blood drawn they made him anemic.

    Please keep your face toward the sunshine so you can feel all of God's love and peace as you go through this amazing life he has for you and your family.

    You and yours are in my prayers.
    Heather

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  5. As usual, I too got a bit teary eyed at the first couple pics. I'm soo glad you and Matt were able to spend some time with Evan!....looks like a great time at the zoo! You are both amazing parents! Give your family some squeezes from the Egolf's! Love ya!

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  6. A couple things:

    1. That pic of Even crying with his "hat" on is the saddest little thing I've seen in a while. :(

    2. I just know that despite it all, he loved having you and Matt all to himself!

    3. You look SO stinking good with that haircut! I know, it's not "new" at this point, but seeing these pics just reminded me all over again.

    4. So glad you guys made it safely back!!

    xo

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  7. Jamie,

    I have got to quit reading your blogs here at work. I am sitting here with my red, red nose (and you know what that means, yes I have been crying!). I hate it that Evan has had to endure so much in his young life, but I am so proud of the charactor God is building in him. Like Shannan said, I know he loved being alone with you and Matt and what better way to spend it than at the zoo and Buca's! You are a great mom and I am so proud of you!

    Love you,
    Mom

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  8. What an amazingly brave boy you have. And he has some amazingly brave parents! God is going to use him in big ways someday (and probably already is)!
    How fun that he got to spend 3 days with you and Matt (even if some of it wasn't so fun). My oldest is dying to have me for just 2 hours alone. :)

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  9. Jamie, You are amazing! That little boy is precious and you are very lucky to have him in your lives! I, like everyone else, sits here with tears in my eyes. You are one STRONG and AMAZING mother!! You make me want to be a better person and mother!

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  10. Precious, brave little boy. He is so inspiring. I am so glad he was able to have some fun at the zoo after that ordeal, and to eat at Buca. Love that restaurant. We have one in Columbus.

    Bugs to you,

    Jenn V

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